Friday, September 20, 2013

Personal Childhood Web- Mama

My mother is by far the most influential and important person in my life. To nurture is in her blood and soul, she does it effortlessly. As a natural care taker, having my brother and myself to raise wasnt' enough for her. She worked as a foster parent for children with special needs. We had many children stay with us throughout the years who had many different disabilities including deafness, cerebral palsy, and Down syndrome. Through her work, she instilled in me an acceptance for disabled people, teaching me that their individual needs and thoughts are as important as anyone else's. No matter who else she was caring for, she always made time for me. As a past hippie, she ingrained in me a respect for nature. We were constantly going on hikes, playing outside, or going to parks. To this day she tells me that she "loves me more than the world". She also tells me that I make her day when I call her and say "Mama". Even though she and my father were only married for six months, she has never shown me any negative feelings towards him. She remarried to my step-father when I was two saying that she fell in love with him when she saw how well he interacted with me. Her name is Lisa, and she is a person who I adore, cherish, and hope to always honor. Here she is giving me a whipped cream pie for my first birthday in 1984.

2 comments:

  1. I love how you have photos as a baby this helps put those memories into perspective. The youngest photo my siblings an I have is when I was about four years old. It molded and the picture disappeared. I think it can be digitally enhanced. Have you found any you mother's hippie coming out in you now? If so in what way?

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  2. Hey Cynthia!

    I would say that the hippie in me is my love for nature and value of love over money. I prefer to live a simple life, not using more of the planet than I need. My mom has told me stories of how she used to take showers in waterfalls and sleep under the stars. She rode in a van across the country to California and lived with a wood carver for a while. She was a true naturalist!

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